Discover more from House of Receipt’s Newsletter
The "Sex Slave"
"It's all about the headspace. And the stronger the submission, the deeper you can go..."
Content Advisory: The following contains explicit sexual references, language, images, and allegations of abuse. Please be mindful of this as you proceed.
In November, 2017, curiously brief and yet strikingly acrimonious messages regarding the actor Armie Hammer began appearing on DataLounge, the long-standing internet forum discussing a wide range of topics with an LGBTQIA+ tilt.
Thanks for reading House of Receipts! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support our work! 💖
“It’s rather easy tolerating your straight husband being a little too close with his middle-aged unattractive director… when the alternative is your husband disappearing into the rope dojos with his teenage sex slave,” read the message (Figure 1), which was posted in the Armie Hammer subject thread.
Though it stood-out for the biting specificity of its allegations and notably angry tone, few people at the time paid much attention to this post, preferring to continue speculating elaborately about Hammer’s sexuality (a point of supposition ever since Hammer had appeared in “Call Me By Your Name,” a film in which his character, Oliver, falls in-love with Timothée Chalamet’s character, Elio) than asking the anonymous poster how they knew that Hammer allegedly had a “sex slave,” apparently one that Hammer’s wife at the time, Elizabeth Chambers, was also aware of and, the poster claimed, “tolerated.”
The anonymous poster themselves offered no more information, though they appeared to speak-up again in a tellingly-aggressive message defending Hammer from the wild conjectures of another DataLounge contributor who opined that perhaps then-newly-accused actor Kevin Spacey had gotten handsy with Hammer once upon a yesteryear.
“I’ll fucking rip Kevin Spacey’s fucking hands off and skin him alive if i [sic] ever found out he so much as thought of doing something to Him,” the person who spoke in the same tone and manner as the person who first introduced the idea of Hammer having a “sex slave” said (Figure 2). By capitalizing the “H” in “Him” when referring to the actor, this person makes it clear they elevate Hammer and revere him. This clue, and the passion with which they attacked the speaker who suggested any impropriety from Spacey towards Hammer, indicates this is likely the same person speaking both times, and strongly implies they may be the “sex slave” they identified in their own post.
For over a month, this “sex slave” did not contribute further to the DataLounge Armie Hammer thread, until once more, on January 1st, 2018, undeterred in their determination to make themselves and their allegations known and speaking again cryptically of themselves in the third person, they spoke anew.
“I already told you guys about his sex slave and you didn’t listen,” the person who is very likely this same “sex slave” wrote (Figure 3).
This time, DataLounge members took note.
What followed was an unfettered hours-long question/answer session in which this “sex slave,” still speaking in the third person, revealed what appeared to be extremely intimate alleged details of what they claimed were Armie Hammer’s sexual preferences, sexual kinks, sexual activities and extramarital hobbies, and of Hammer’s relationship with then-spouse Chambers, the mother of Hammer’s two young children, Harper and Ford, and their family dynamic.
What stood-out was this alleged “sex slave”’s claims that Armie Hammer, they said, was very into BDSM.
“He’s into tying girls up, choking them out, being worshipped and rape play, preferably anally,” this “sex slave” said (Figure 4) in response to questions about Hammer’s alleged sexual kinks. Note that “rape play,” often interchangeably referred to as Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) in the BDSM community, is one of the activities this “sex slave” claims Hammer enjoys, particularly involving anal penetration. The website Dom Sub Living defines CNC in BDSM as:
A mutual agreement where the [dominant partner, usually referred to as a “Dom”] is able to act as if [the submissive partner, usually referred to as a “sub”] has waived all consent. Complete consent is given beforehand, with the understanding of it being a permanent arrangement under most circumstances.
Hammer, this alleged “sex slave” made clear (Figure 5), was “strictly a Dominant [partner]. VERY,” claiming they enjoyed a “Master/slave 24/7 with rape play (CNC)” type of relationship with the actor, involving “ropes, knifes, permission to come [sic] (orgasm control), choking out, [and] sensual kitten play” (Figure 6).
Note that at no point does this “sex slave” express any disapproval and/or dislike for any of these BDSM activities; in fact, they are forthcoming about them to the point of being boastful, indicating a sense of pride and/or accomplishment regarding their participation in these BDSM sex play activities.
“It’s all about the headspace,” this “sex slave” mused exuberantly (Figure 7) , explaining to the DataLounge community and others just how strong their bond with Hammer allegedly was, noting that “the stronger the submission, the deeper you can go.” “When someone cares enough to learn precisely what you’re into and give [sic] it to you just the way you need it, you know you can let go and immerse yourself,” they said, making evident their complete rapture and the apparent symbiotic type of relationship with Hammer this “sex slave” claimed they had.
In fact, this “sex slave” boasted, their “submission” bond with Armie Hammer was so strong, Hammer “moved” this “20-year-old European model” “sex slave” who “work[ed] at [the ultra exclusive, members-only private sex club SNCTM] to [Hammer’s] neighborhood” (Figure 8), an apparent move to ensure their proximity.
Again, we emphasize the important point that as this person revealed these apparently intimate details and shared the contents of their mind and heart online, all under the protective shroud of supposed anonymity, not once did this “sex slave” ever express any apprehension or disgust towards Hammer, their alleged relationship, the BDSM sex acts they allegedly engaged in, and/or anything else regarding their purported connection. Hammer’s alleged insistence that this “sex slave” move physically closer to his home, which this “sex slave” gloated about and expressed no reservations towards doing, further underscores that regardless of what our own personal comfort levels may be with BDSM and this type of Dominant/submissive relationship, this “sex slave” appeared to be perfectly happy with these arrangements.
But, as in all happy tales, there is always a snag, an obstacle and/or hindrance to overcome. For this alleged “sex slave” enjoying her best “sex slave” life as Armie Hammer’s alleged kink partner, that hindrance was none other than Hammer’s then-spouse, Elizabeth Chambers. If there is one other persistent theme throughout these early DataLounge revelations, it’s that this “sex slave” saw Chambers as an inconvenient, albeit unimpressive, barrier for whom she had very few kind words or feelings.
“[Elizabeth Chambers is] not remotely involved” with their BDSM adventures, this “sex slave” declared (Figure 9), adding that “[Chambers] doesn’t even blow [Hammer] enough to cum.” “[Chambers] wouldn’t even agree to a threesome,” she continued (Figure 10), implying this was something this “sex slave” would readily agree to in an effort to satisfy Hammer, which was apparently this “sex slave”’s exclusive drive in life. This “sex slave” then added the coup-de-grâce: “I think [Chambers is] frigid” (Figure 10), they said, a reference to Female Sexual Dysfunction using the historical term for this affliction, “frigidity,” a term which connotes centuries of female sexual and social repression grounded in pseudo-science.
Never someone to shy away from adding further insult to what is already grave injury, the “sex slave” drove home the characterization of Chambers as the ultimate “mediocre” (Figure 7) “trophy wife” (Figure 8) standing in the way of what they believed would have been theirs and Hammer’s Dominant/submissive BDSM kink union full of bliss when they added:
It takes a lot of love for a wife to stay with her husband after learning he fucked with the baby around and licked some girl's ass and came home to kiss her.
The disrespect, hatred, and scorn are palpable even this many years later.
Everything came crashing to an end when Chambers “officially found out,” this “sex slave” said (Figure 6) —despite maintaining that Chambers always knew (Figure 1)—, at a “Tom Ford party,” when Chambers saw the “sex slave” and Armie Hammer sneak-off “to fuck in the bathroom” (Figure 6).
The DataLounge “sex slave” affair, it seemed, was scorched and consumed by the heat of its own passionately kinky fire, its smoke quickly subsiding and fading into memory.
Coincidentally and very curiously, in January, 2021, almost exactly three years after the “sex slave” made these public posts on the DataLounge forum, and no longer speaking about herself in the third person (for the most part, anyways), Effie (whom we introduced in our previous post), in one of her numerous Instagram “Ask Me Anything” (AMA) sessions, spoke about “sneaking around” with Armie Hammer “during the Nocturnal Animals promo” (Figure 11). “Nocturnal Animals” is a 2016 movie starring Amy Adams and Jake Gyllenhaal and featuring Hammer, that was written and directed by none other than multi-hyphenate talent Tom Ford.
Effie claims to have “met” Armie Hammer online, via Facebook, on October 16th, 2016 (Figure 12), about one month prior to the “Nocturnal Animals” premier.
In her eponymous @HouseOfEffie Instagram stories, Effie also claimed that Hammer had “asked [her] to move to his area” in January, 2017, sharing a picture of herself from that time gleefully standing in the middle of a park in the neighborhood Hammer had “asked” her to “move” to (Figure 13). The “sex slave” who posted to DataLounge back in late 2017 through early 2018 also claimed Hammer had moved them closer to his home (Figure 8).
Though she has repeatedly denied ever having worked at SNCTM, the high-end, private member’s-only sex club where the “sex slave” claimed they had worked (Figure 8), Effie worked at SNCTM (Figure 14), as per this image of Effie posing in full BDSM gear as she is welcomed into the “#Snctm #family” in a public social media post. (Note that “Effie” is a nickname, an Anglicized and shortened version of the Eastern European name “Efrosina,” the name she is referred to as in this post.)
Like the “sex slave” who once flew into a rage at the mere suggestion of any impropriety from then recently #MeToo’ed actor Kevin Spacey towards Armie Hammer, threatening to “fucking rip Kevin Spacey’s fucking hands off and skin him alive” (Figure 2), Effie has often displayed this same violent ardor at any suggestion of harm towards the actor, admonishing her social media followers to not “touch,” “harass,” or “insult” Hammer, lest they wanted to “purposely” “trigger” her into “feeling protective of him” (Figure 15).
Also like the “sex slave” who once told Armie Hammer he “should fire” his publicist, Evelyn Karamanos, because, the “sex slave” said, Karamanos “suck[s]” (Figure 10), Effie too has always shown a particularly impassioned hatred of Karamanos (Figure 16), whom Effie frames as a gender traitor, apparently merely because Karamanos did her job.
There is, further, a peculiarly striking correlation between details described in a screenshot of a private message allegedly sent by Hammer to Effie and a sex act the “sex slave” had described in January, 2018. “It takes a lot of love for a wife to stay with her husband after learning he fucked with the baby around and licked some girl's ass and came home to kiss her,” the “sex slave” said (Figure 7); “Is it weird I liked kissing my wife after eating your ass?” Hammer allegedly asked Effie (Figure 17). Hammer’s alleged message to Effie is describing exactly the same sex act and scenario Hammer’s “sex slave” had described on the DataLounge website just three years prior.
And though after publicly accusing Hammer of fantasizing about cannibalism, Effie attempted to ingratiate herself with Elizabeth Chambers (Figure 18), who by 2021 was now Hammer’s estranged wife and someone whom at some point Effie must have realized she would need the support of if she ever wanted to succeed in bringing Hammer down, Effie, like this “sex slave” (Figures 1, 6-10), was initially wildly contemptuous and disparaging of Chambers, mocking Chambers ruthlessly by publicly reminding Chambers that she had “fucked [her] husband” (Figure 19) and by referring to Chambers publicly as “🦎” (Figure 20), a further demeaning play on a nickname —Liz— that Chambers is well-known to despise.
So callously ruthless to Chambers has Effie been, in fact, that despite having played a prominent role in the dissolution of the Hammer’s marriage and their family life (a point not lost on Chambers, who, according to Effie, had choice words for her at some point during this process of separation (Figure 20), as seen above), at the onset of 2021, Effie still felt entitled to a public apology from Chambers (Figure 21), essentially for Chambers fighting to keep her family together as Effie actively worked to tear it apart.
(Note that Effie often speaks of multiple victims to give the false impression that Hammer is a serial predator, but Effie is the only person who has formally accused Hammer of any wrongdoing. There have been other stories regarding the actor that have been shared by a couple other women with whom Effie was once in contact; we will discuss these women and their allegations in a future chapter/installment.)
Effie never publicly apologized to Chambers for these transgressions, either, though she did attempt to frame her behavior and actions towards Chambers entirely as a consequence of Hammer’s “tactic,” claiming the actor tried to “isolate women from each other and pit us against one another,” allegedly by speaking in less-than-flattering terms of each woman to the other (Figure 22). Even if Hammer ever referred to Chambers as a “monster,” as Effie alleges, the cruelty with which Effie treated Chambers, someone she did not personally know, was entirely Effie’s choice.
This unwillingness to take responsibility for her own choices and actions, repeatedly blaming others and creating false boogeymen —as she does here to Hammer— to blame her choices and actions on instead, is a recurring theme for Effie we will encounter throughout this story.
All of these multiple similarities between the “sex slave” writing in DataLounge anonymously and in the third person in late 2017 through early 2018 about an extramarital BDSM-based affair with Armie Hammer allegedly hampered only by a publicist and an “evil” (Figure 22) wife, and Effie, the woman who began publicly releasing alleged intimate conversations with the actor in early 2021 while showing an equally-zealous hatred of Hammer’s publicist and spouse, point to only one possible logical conclusion:
Effie is almost certainly this “sex slave.”
This is a crucial point made even more pressing when, sometime after coming forward with her “#cannibal” fantasy allegations, Effie began changing her story and began eventually accusing Armie Hammer of serious criminal wrongdoing, namely abuse, specifically sexual assault, ultimately holding a press conference on March 18th, 2021, alongside her attorney, Gloria Allred, to accuse Hammer formally and announce that the actor was being investigated by the Los Angeles Police Department.
This is a dramatic re-imagining and re-framing of the story Effie has been sharing publicly since November 19th, 2017 (only seven months after Effie claims she was allegedly assaulted, on April 24th, 2017), when, hiding her identity by speaking anonymously and in the third person as a “sex slave,” Effie began posting on the DataLounge website (Figure 1) to openly flaunt and boast about her alleged relationship with Hammer (Figure 7), and to complain about the inconvenience of his marriage to his then-spouse Chambers (Figure 1, 6-10), not to accuse Hammer of any wrongdoing.
In fact, in reference to Hammer, Effie, speaking as this then-anonymous “sex slave,” specifically said at the time:
When someone cares enough to learn precisely what you’re into and give [sic] it to you just the way you need it, you know you can let go and immerse yourself.
There is no apprehension, fear, or distrust in these words, only romantic infatuation and complete abandon.
Even in early 2021, as Effie began her scorched-earth campaign to defame Armie Hammer by initially publicly accusing him of having cannibal fantasies and progressively elaborating her allegations to portray Hammer as a generally ‘bad’ person, Effie denied any abuse to people who began reaching out to her over social media (Figure 23).
Anyone who questioned the intensity and/or peculiar flavor of the BDSM fantasies that emerged as Effie released screenshot after screenshot of alleged private conversations with Hammer was quickly met with the same piercing contempt Effie reserves for people she particularly hates, like Evelyn Karamanos and Elizabeth Chambers. “If you come into my inbox not knowing how kinky I am with these long ass messages going on and on and on and on about ‘Did he manhandle you…?’” announced Effie, “there is literally one possible outcome. I won’t be replying but do keep those messages and me coming [sic]” (Figure 24).
It is glaringly evident from Effie’s own words in these early posts from January, 2021, that while others may have perceived her alleged BDSM Dominant/submissive kinky interactions with Armie Hammer as shocking, even borderline abusive, Effie, who calls herself a very “kinky” woman (Figure 24), did not regard them in the same manner. To this end, Effie appeared often confused by the suggestion that there was any impropriety in her purported interactions with Hammer, doubling down and insisting that she “didn’t say anywhere” that her encounters with Hammer “[were] not consensual so not sure why so many messages about it” (Figure 23).
In effect, the only problem Effie presented for years in what she clearly saw and painted as a rapturous, extremely kinky Dominant/submissive consensual romance with a married man —Armie Hammer— was that married man’s wife/mother of his children, Elizabeth Chambers, whom Effie dragged mercilessly all over social media, until Effie decided to publicly accuse Hammer of allegations that completely contradict everything Effie had ever said of her relationship with the actor.
What changed that triggered Effie to begin publicly and falsely accusing Armie Hammer? What further changed that triggered Effie to embellish her claims?
We will answer these questions and continue exploring the contradictions in Effie’s ever-evolving, over-exaggerated claims in our next chapter/installment.
Please like, share, and subscribe to follow along!
Thanks again for reading House of Receipts! Please remember to subscribe for free to receive new posts and support our work! 💕